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Wednesday, 7 September 2016

How to Be Successful With The Right Friends





The people you spend time with can either support or obstruct your efforts to reach your objectives. It is not always due to bad luck or other external influences; sometimes it is because of the people you maintain. Wrong companions might foster a bad environment that hinders your progress. Some friends were beneficial in the past, but they may not be suitable for the present or future.


Identify the Friendship Problem

It is critical to maintain objectivity while making decisions on friends despite your feelings. Determine which of your buddies are not worth keeping in your life. Sort them into groups according to how they have affected your life rather than continuing to do the same old things with them. In this method, you can rectify any unfavorable circumstances brought about by unfit individuals.


The Power of Friends

You will be impacted, either positively or negatively, by the attitudes and actions of your friends. For this reason, you should stay away from friends who do not have aspirations. These buddies will not support you in developing or accomplishing your objectives. Find friends that encourage you and push your thinking instead.



Actions to Take

1. Determine Negative Influences: Evaluate your friends to see who is a negative influence in your life.

2. Adjust: Cease associating with folks who sabotage your progress. Growing out of certain friendships is OK.

3. Make Good Friends: Look for people who are encouraging and aspirational for friendship. They will support your ability to remain goal-focused.


Achieving your goals depends on making the correct friendship choices. Think carefully about who you invite into your life. Think carefully about who you invite into your life.


Saturday, 3 September 2016

How To Decrease the Suffering of Your Souls


Life puts us through unexpected situations and unavoidable circumstances. No matter how hard we try to resist but we cannot change certain things in our lives. We have to accept certain situations and people in our life despite the fact that we don’t desire to have them. Sometimes it can be painful but we have to accept the reality and adapt ourselves to patterns of life.




                        
 It would be an exhausting task if we try to get everything we want according to our likes and dislikes or try to change everything in our life according to our choice. The more we try and resist changes, situations and circumstances, the more painful and difficult life will be. Radical acceptance is the only way of life.

We can't avoid changes, we cannot run away from situations and we cannot change the circumstances life puts us into, but we can accept the realities of life with a positive attitude and decrease the suffering of our souls. The more we resist change the more will be our suffering and pain. So don’t resist just accept and move on." ~ Aarti Khurana