How Do You Grow Up Your Future

Creating an intentional future can't be achieved overnight and it requires work and discipline to see your future growing. Growth is a process not an accidental occurrence. 

No journey can begin without a definition of processes to undertake to get to the destination. Building up your today determines where you sit tomorrow. But first you have to create the circumstances for it to rise up. 

How do I create the right circumstances? Transformation of your future started right from your thought, that’s MENTALLY creation of how you want your future to look like, no change takes place without thoughts. A thought gives birth to a decision, and a decision that is acted upon becomes manifestation. That is, we’re the product of our emotions, if your emotions are fixed on negative aspects; you're likely to attract those situations because of your predominant reactions.

While PHYSICALLY methods is a Practical Strategies for  creating the right circumstance, If you refuse to accept responsibility you die as a liability, if you don't take steps today you won't have a story tomorrow. Those who embrace the gist of life with its accompanying responsibly make the most of life.

As long as you keep taking steps, you keep going up and you will become a star without much stress.  It is your commitment to work that determines your attainment in the world. Things only work for workers, planners, dreamers, positive thinkers and idleness makes your body system begin to decay, until you gradually drop off.

The only substitute for your failure to grow up your future is penury your destiny is determined by what you do with your hand. Do not let anything rob you off the ingredient needed to keep living your life. You are dying gradually without knowing once you stop taking steps to see your future growing.

Those who don’t take life serious leave without any accomplishment. If you are thoroughly want to live a good life and wish to have a brighter future, go and connect with the character........ That will put you into functioning in these three ways mentally, physically, and SPIRITUALLY with the grace of God upon your life you will achieve a brighter future.

Do something positive today to affect your tomorrow before it is too late nothing changes on its own, every change is consciously affected.

Stop Living Life In the same Old Way

On your road to get inspired to achieve your aims, sometimes, your worst enemy may be wrong people you are going out with and not necessarily Satan. What he does, he uses wrong people to accomplish a conducive atmosphere for his negative operations in your life. Some friends are only relevant in your past not in your present and future, likewise those that are relevant in your yesterday, today and future.

You don't have to be emotional about it, just try to identify these kinds of friends, Stop living life in the same old way with them and partition them according to their positions. So, that any wrong situations and circumstances in your life caused by wrong people can be drastically changed.

Whatever is flowing negative or positive in the life of your friends will surely find its way into your own life. That's why never would you make friends with people who lack ambition, they can't elevate your thinking beyond the ground they stand on your task is to identify this best option for your life to follow, then focus your effort there.

How To Decrease the Suffering of Your Souls

Life puts us through unexpected situations and unavoidable circumstances. No matter how hard we try to resist but we cannot change certain things in our lives. We have to accept certain situations and people in our life despite the fact that we don’t desire to have them. Sometimes it can be painful but we have to accept the reality and adapt ourselves to patterns of life.




                        
 It would be an exhausting task if we try to get everything we want according to our likes and dislikes or try to change everything in our life according to our choice. The more we try and resist changes, situations and circumstances, the more painful and difficult life will be. Radical acceptance is the only way of life.

We can't avoid changes, we cannot run away from situations and we cannot change the circumstances life puts us into, but we can accept the realities of life with a positive attitude and decrease the suffering of our souls. The more we resist change the more will be our suffering and pain. So don’t resist just accept and move on." ~ Aarti Khurana

Logical Steps to Eliminate That Worry

For God sake! Stop worrying yourself on pointlessly and needlessly issues.  George F. Burns said, “If you ask what the single most important key to longevity is, I would have to say it is avoiding worry, stress and tension. And if you didn’t ask me, I’d still have to say it.”

Worries are sent by the situations surrounding our life to engage your attention so much that you think probably that problem is the only things in your life; some people have let their worries blind them from divine purpose.  John Jay Chapman said, "People get so in the habit of worry that if you save them from drowning and put them on a bank to dry in the sun with hot chocolate and muffins they wonder whether they are catching a cold." However, we wouldn't be human if we didn't worry about things instead decide whether there is something you can do about whatever it is you are worrying about, or not.

Meanwhile, we worry about things that matter and on things that doesn't really matters to us, all I know is that too much worries gradually taking you away from your divine purpose, and blind you not to see opportunities somewhere else. (Robert Frost) “The reason why worry kills more people than work is that more people worry than work.” And Persistent worrying is a sign that you aren't ready to do something about the problem, it implies that you just want to continue carrying on that worries, and looking concerned rather than doing something on it. Mary Hemingwayn said,  “Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is 

wrong, fix it up, if you can. But train yourself not to worry. Worry never fixes anything."

Let's look at the minds of some writers 

John Kehoe of Mind Power prescribed how we can easily curb uncomfortable generated from worrying.

 

 Practice Mind Power. The daily practice of Mind Power will keep worry from overpowering you. Fear and worry will find no fertile place to take root in a mind that is aware and conscious of it. Mind Power is your best friend and most powerful tool. Use it.

  

Challenge catastrophic thinking  - Most of us exaggerate our situations during fearful times, projecting ourselves into the direst circumstances. We let worry carry us away. Resolve to not let this happen. There are solutions to every problem, and undoubtedly it will not become as bad as the fear is projecting. Don’t let worst-case scenarios dominate your thinking. There is every possibility that the situation won’t be a bad as you think, and it could be a whole lot better. There
may well be hidden benefits and blessings that you haven’t even thought of.

Recognize the cost of worrying - Yes, there is a cost. Firstly, it causes stress, which in turn affects our health and our decision-making process. You don’t make good decisions when you’re worried. Secondly it actually attracts to us the circumstances we are worrying about, especially if we start to fear it. Understanding this, we choose to not worry. It is not worth the time or effort, and it is always counterproductive.

Focusing on the exact opposite of what you have feared. Whatever the fear has you focusing on; change the focus to the exact opposite. You don’t need to fight fear. Observe it carefully to see what it is suggesting to you, and then simply focus on the opposite."

Quotes About Worrying;
Winston Churchill said, "When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.”

Also.....!

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer an internationally renowned author and speaker in the field of self-development said that you should "Keep in mind the most useful advice I can give you for eliminating worry from your life; I learned it a long time ago from a teacher I had in India: It makes no sense to worry about the things you have no control over, because if you have no control over them, it makes no sense to worry about them. And also, it makes no sense to worry about the things you do have control over, because if you have control over them, it makes no sense to worry about them. And there goes everything that it is possible to worry about. Either you have control or you don't, and worry is just a waste of your precious, present moments".

Quotes About Worrying;
Arthur Somers Roche said, “Worry is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.”

Helpguide.org said, "If the worry is solvable, start brainstorming. Make a list of all the possible solutions you can think of. Try not to get too hung up on finding the perfect solution. Focus on the things you have the power to change, rather than the circumstances or realities beyond your control. After you’ve evaluated your options, make a plan of action. Once you have a plan and start doing something about the problem, you’ll feel much less worried."

So, the 3 logical steps to eliminate that worrying

1. You need a practical advice. If you are worrying about your health, go and see a doctor

2. Do anything that's constructive to keep you busy

3. You need up to date information on what is happening concerning the areas where you are having problems.

So, stop worrying yourself.

Using Your Thoughts To Building Wealth

Practically everything that has value around you first exist has an idea before it was physically created. This means that wealth are created twice mental and physical creation.....


Many of us defined wealth as only a material things such as money, factory, power, and all tangible properties and if that's your definition of wealth well, your capacities for create wealth is going to be grossly limited, because your thoughts controls all the materials things in life and your mind is one that gives you the capacity to solve peoples problem. 

So to make transformation of your life and financial more prosper you have to take it as your number one resources, you create value with your mind. For instance, if you have money without your mental creation (ideas) of what exactly you want to achieve with the money, the money may likely go because it wouldn't have the capacities to reproduce, on other hands, if you have idea and don't have money automatically your idea will attracts their physical equivalent to reproduce you can even sell that ideas. 

Thoughts, ideas they are valuable resources that you most avoid to waste in this generation of ours. So things we cannot see or hold are more powerful than what we can see. 


People now realized that ideas as value as land and house. If you continue sideline them you will be living money on your table and as one of the greatest factors that can transformed your life. 

Ideas rules the world and according savvy entrepreneurs that says "man isn't people who doesn't have money but people who doesn't have ideas" To be frank, when you believe that you are poor or you assumed that you do not have capacity to try any business or struggling with inferiority complex, it will be very hard to proper on whatever you lay your hands. And it doesn't matter the amount of people or available opportunities to aids you what you think is what you possess, what you think controls the circumstances of your life. 

To Reach a Goal In Life - 6 Things That Will Not

If you dare wants to finish the race that God has set ahead of you, there are some thing you must considered and watch out for because they will not allow a man to reach his goal life.The following scenarios are not an exhaustive list of things that will not allow you to reach your expected targets, but to give you another way of looking at things, that might be a breakthrough in your life.

  6 Things You Most Watch Out For Before You Can Attain Your Stated Objectives

Wrong People: they are those not necessarily unbelievers or wicked people but they are those that God has not ordained for you to go on together in life. You need to understand that not everybody you are going together will pass into the next stages with you because some people are only relevant in your past, and not now or useful in future. Study indicated that they cannot elevate your thinking more than the ground they stand on, you don't have to be emotional about their characters, but appreciate them. Instead, among the people you go on together identify those that are relevant in your yesterday, today and future on your road to success.

Your Thoughts: it controls all the materials things in life. A resource you can use to transform or ruin your life. It depends on the mindset you have for success. You need to get rid of a poor you. When you believed that you are poor, it will be very hard to prosper, it doesn't matter the amount of people or available opportunities to help u, What you think is what you possess, what you possess is what controls the circumstances of your life.

Your capacity to do things according to, Mahatma Gandhi that says “Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning." 

 Procrastination: is the eater of time, killer of ability to those that procrastinates and can never make them utilizes their God given talents. This is an horrible inner behavior that gradually stops you from reaching your expected end in life, 

Regret: In the journey of life I don't think you have much time to dwell over your past mistakes because you will surely make a lot of mistakes but try not to mourn over them, instead learn the lesson that is needed to be learned from your past mistakes and move on.

 Lack of Training: If you dare want to make it in life you need to respect training and retaining in whatever field of life you are, it will surely keeps you up-to-date and prepare you for the task ahead. It fine tunes your gifting, brings out the best in you and increases productivity, but if you refuse training, you'll be leaving money on your table and you will amount to a half baked that is not useful to anyone.
 

Fear: one of the weapons procrastination uses to stop a man from reaching his goal in life is the weapon of fear. Fear of unknown, failure or fear of what people will say,  if you will reach your destination in life, kindly get rid of your fear because it will not allow you to start anything. 

Turn a life lesson into an action

Resolve to use what you have learned from living  life  to change your focus. Looking back to make an assessment about your past using the wisdom gained over time to help you begin to develop a productive approach towards making a better choices from evaluating past circumstances. This approach can either work for you or against depends on your mindset. If you aren't the type of person dwelling much on your past events or a person that doesn’t really understood that life will surely offers series of adventures such person won’t know how to make use of his/her past experiences.

To get the most out of life you have to take lessons that life provides from your past event as a series of adventures to learning new ways of doing things, expand your circle of experience, to step outside of yourself, building from your strengths to address areas of needed development. Once your thinking doesn’t get rigid that things cannot be better again then you will be able to take the uncertainty and fear out of the questions to turn a life into an action.

All In all, the lessons that life provides was that you should be able to trust your ability to make the best decision when needed because you have faced similar challenges and that begins a change in your approach to self-reflection as you can now develop a plan of action that makes you a better person

Level of Your Self-Confidence Determines Your Success

Self-confidence determines your success or failure in every aspect of your life. Confidence comes from a strong and healthy sense of self to form realistic perception of your abilities. If you are used to thinking negative thoughts about what you are capable of doing your life will reflect this negative energy.   

 
You need to constantly add self-supportive talk into your inner dialog to begin creating confidence, self-esteem and success. There are many ways to become a confident leader in your own life.


One place you can begin building self-confidence is in your “thoughts”. For instance, we are all capable of holding negative thoughts about ourselves, such as - I'm not good enough, I'm unworthy,   I'm helpless, I can't change, etc. These negative thoughts, repeated over and over again, create a self-fulfilling prophecy.

To be in a better position to boost self confidence you need to create a new YOU, choosing to think about yourself in a  whole new way realize that you can end that 'stinking thinking' by Challenge Your Limits. Nothing can stop you from challenging your limits. 

Coming out of your comfort zone and don't ever think that your limit is your comfort zone, your achievement is out of your comforts zone and the only key that can helps you to lock enemies of success outside the fence is to facing bigger challenges of your life and avoid using this mindset "try out", having this mindset you are still operating with low-esteem.

 

To be candid, not everyone is brave enough to do something which is not their strength but whatever you're perfect at doing, do it to upgrade a level up in your life.  

 

The consequence of running your life with low self confidence was that you will be helping others live their dreams and settling down to a life of regrets at the end of day.

Live a Life That Faces Things Honestly

We think that if we chuck enough money on something it will solve the problem but you need to live a life that faces things honestly, deal with what needs to be dealt with genuinely, Face reality. When you allow a huge feeling of sadness, fear, or anger or any forms of uncomfortable to seal your mind; you may likely be handed over to the enemies of success. 

Give Yourself a Lift

You need to be your own faith builder and hope booster when you put a limit on yourself no one can unlit you, words are seeds to your destiny because what you see is what you become. Self talk empowers you to believe in yourself and abilities that why you need to learn to use words that will work for you not against you.
 Stop limit yourself by your own words .

You Will Never Understand Everything

There are likely to be a few things going on around you right now, as there always will be. It will remain just slightly outside of your comprehension people will behave oddly and you won’t understand why.



                            

Things will go unexpectedly wrong or right and it won’t make sense spend all your time desperately trying to work it all out and if you are trying to do that  you’ll drive yourself crazy. Much better to just accept that there is always stuff that we won’t understand and let it go and discover the peace of mind that comes with knowing that you’ll never understand everything.